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‘Dear Angeline:

Starting this edition of
the Other Press we will be
adding an advice column. All
readers are welcome to write
with your concerns, ideas,
panes. or anyting you want
to talk about. All letters will
be kept anonymous, but if you
wish to use an alternate name
feel free to do so. Any per-
sonal input would be greatly
appreciated.

Angeline will be your advice
columnist. She has a back-
ground in counseling and
communications, and enjoys
working with people. She will
address your concerns and
topics of interest in each issue
of the Other Press.

All letters can be dropped off
at the Other Press Rm. 1020.
There will be a special slot in
the door for Angeline’s col-
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hearing from you!

Dear Angeline:

a8 boyfriend is moving to
California next week and al-
though we've been only dat-
ing for 2 months, I feel very
strongly towards him and I
know he feels the same way
towards me. We want to try a
long distance relationship,
though we know it will be
very difficult. I often have
doubts as to whether we can
make this work, but I don’t
want to lose him. Any sug-
gestions?

Signed, -

Left Alone.

Dear Left Alone:

It sounds like you’ve given
some thought to your rela-
tionship with your boyfriend.
Now, your next step is deal-
ing with the feelings and anxi-
eties that go eee along
distance relationship. Discuss-
ing these concerns with him
before his departure should
help alleviate some of your
worries. It also wouldn't be a
bad idea to plan a meeting
schedule in advance. In do-
ing so, you will be more at:
ease with yourself. If you be-
lieve in this relationship then
go with your heart and give it
some time. Time will tell
whether you will be success-
. in maintaining al rela-
tionship. Good luck!

Dear Angeline:

one I broke ue with my
boyfriend (twice) because he
wasn't willing to commit to

the relationship. The problem
is that he ends up calling me
up again and I take him back
everytime. I care about him,
but his lack of commitment
hurts me. What should I do?

Crying Myself to Sleep
Dear Crying Myself to Sleep:

If you've made a decision to
not continue your relationship
with your boyfriend, then you
need to follow through.
Sometimes it’s hard initial

when you break up wit

someone to deal with all the
feelings that are left behind.

But if you give yourself some
time and space away from
your boyfriend it could give
you a clearer picture. Answer-
ing his calls will only make
you more confused, by regen-
erating old feelings that need
to be dealt with. After allot-
ting some time away, if you
come to the conclusion that
you would like to give him
another chance then you need

to discuss his lack of commit- .

ment with him. If he is still
not willing to commit to the
relationship, then you need to
make a decision as to whether
that is acceptable to you or
whether you'd like to move
on.

Dear Angeline:

I've lived with my roommate
for almost two years. Last
week, he admitted to me that
he is gay. I'm unsure how I feel
about this, and don't know if
I feel comfortable living with

an actively gay man. What
should I ane -

Signed,
Phobic?

Dear Phobic:

Your fear and confusion isn't
unusual. Many people auto-
matically fear that which they
do not understand. Remem-
ber that your roommate is the
same person you've known for
the last two years. Address
your concerns with your
roommate, and you'll feel bet-
ter about it. If you're con-
cerned about him having feel-
ings for you, think about this:
You've lived with him for two
years. If he was going to make
a pass at you, he most likely
would have before now. Once
again, the answer is, simply,
scuss it with him.

 

 

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