It’s not good enough to yell: “I don’t vs A damannos just get me a new girl.” Figure out wha sort ofjob-you’re trying to fill—most men don’t have a clue. the labor force after raising a family. She says: “Fifteen years ago we were inundated with responses for recep- tionists’ positions, jobs that demanded nothing more than eight hours a day. Now we can’t fill them. But an ad that mentions the word ‘promotable’... we have hundreds of women on file who want a job that will give them a chance to be creative, take some initiative and dig in. And more than three-quarters of them want an opportunity for advance- ment,” A few months ago, Mrs. Davis sent several stenos to an ad agency executive. None of them fit the bill. The problem, she says, was not that the women she had suggested were incapable but that the ad executive really needed an assistant, not a typist. “Most men don’t know what kind of support person they are looking for when they come to us,” says Mrs. Davis, “and that’s because they have no idea what the job is that they are trying to fill.” Nor do they understand that there are rules to the office game. Herman Smith sees the office as a sociological group as well as a functioning operation. “Every office has a Fuehrer, a Big Man on Campus, a James Bond and a Uriah Heep. Women play Snoop Sister, Doris Day, Marilyn Monroe and _ today, Germaine Greer. These people come together every day and interact — like T. S. Eliot’s cocktail party. It’s logical if the Big Man on Campus hires Doris Day.” Unfortunately he rarely thinks of personalities when he is making his choice, Job definition and the relationship between employee and employer are the key issues when hiring a new woman for an office position. Most men simply don’t give them enough weight. Men like the executive vice president of a Toronto insurance company, whom we'll call Fred Miller. He simply yelled, “I don’t give a damn who, just get me a new girl!” Like a lot of men who are in top management positions, Fred’s attitudes towards his female employees haven't changed in 20 years. As far as he’s concerned, the ladies are at work to earn extra money from nine until five. They don’t want responsibility and can’t handle it anyway. They book off sick at the drop of a hat, have a higher rate of turnover than men, and leave you flat for husbands and kids. Fred doesn’t know exactly how he arrived at these conclusions; he’s just always believed them. And that’s that. The truth of the matter is that Fred’s just plain wrong. Over 40 percent of Ontario’s working women are self-sup- porting — either single, widowed, di- vorced or permanently separated. They are not working for pin money. In °72, 1.95 percent of the men in Canada’s labor force had an absentee rate of one week or more; fewer women — 1.76 per- cent — booked off sick for the same length of time, Fred is right about higher turnover for women; at low- income levels they do change jobs more often than men, But in middle- and upper-income brackets where they have more responsibility, women stay at their jobs for the same number of years as men. And 60 percent of Canada’s female labor force is married with children. It’s more difficult to measure women’s attitudes towards their work. Not all women are clamoring for positions in the ulcer ranks, Neither are all men. But surveys in both Canada and the U.S. have shown conclusively that women, like men, are in the work force for ful- fillment and money. And in that order, In a ’73 study, an American psychologist found that contrary to the generally held opinion of managers like Fred Miller, there was no difference between what men and women rated as important in their jobs. Achievement, responsibility and financial rewards ranked far higher than working conditions, status and job security. An introduction to the hand- some young accountant next door or an hour off to go to the beauty parlor isn’t going to be what makes your new secretary happy and more productive. A decade ago it might have worked. But today you'd do better to give her some authority and challenge. She probably could have written those last 10 letters you dictated word for word. That irate customer on the line the other day needn’t have bothered you at all. “Working with that nit-picking ego- maniac was about as challenging as peeling potatoes,” was the comment of Barbara, the 28-year-old woman with five years of secretarial experience who was the reason why Fred Miller was yelling, ““Get me another girl.” “He saw me as a mindless, coffee- making typist whose role was to take a letter and a message. He complained constantly of being overworked, but the thought of delegating responsibility never crossed his mind. During the first couple of months I took some initiative — when straightforward letters came in, I simply answered them. One day he noticed a few in my out box and told me that I should really have let him check them. A high-school dropout could have handled those letters without trouble. He, of course, was worried that I'd screw up and leave him to take the blame... You know, after'a few months T knew almost as much about insurance as he did. But after that episode I just did what he told me to do and kept my mouth shut. And my eyes open for another job.” There’s a key word in Barbara’s comment. Working with Fred Miller, not for. No matter what he thought of her, she regarded him (at least for the first while) as a partner in business. A team working towards corporate goals. To complicate matters further, Bar- bara’s evaluation of her boss’s opinion of her — a mindless, coffee-making typist — was also incorrect. ‘““She seemed to be as bright as any secretary I’ve ever had,” said Fred. “She never blew any of the assignments I gave her... she was efficient too. She’d often have everything done by. 4:30 and have her coat on by the stroke of five. What more could a woman want? Frankly I was surprised when she said she was leaving.” A little late to be surprised. Fred should have thought about establishing a decent working rapport with his secretary the day she arrived. “That first day on the job sets up more attitudes than the first six months,” says Herman Smith. “It’s essential that you take time to focus on the'employee— share attitudes and values about work.” Barbara clearly remembers her first day of employment with Fred Miller. She walked in at 10 minutes to nine. He waltzed in at 10 o’clock, muttering: something about a business appointment that had gone on longer than expected. He spent 15 minutes pointing to files and asking her if she had any questions. She asked one. While he mumbled the answer, he dialled a phone number. She didn’t ask a second. “It’s a good idea,” says Herman Smith, ‘‘to take her to lunch the first day. The secretary is in the exclusive position