March 10, 2008 Lieutenant Governor's visit a royal treat By David Seaweed Le week, I had the privilege of seeing BC’s Lieutenant Governor, the Honourable Steven L. Point, speak at the opening ceremonies of Douglas College’s new aboriginal speakers’ series known as “Reconciliation: The Experience of BC Peoples.” The protocol involved for the Lieutenant Governor’s visit consisted of much pomp and pageantry and was extremely formal (the contrast was especially strong considering I had earlier met the Lieutenant Governor when he was a judge and I was an Aboriginal Witness for a new program at the Justice Institute—back then I could call him Steven). As the speaker series opened, the audience stood in silence while the Lieutenant Governor was ushered in by a very moving and talented group called the Git Hayetsk Dancers. A blessing was then given by Chief Rhonda Larrabee of the New Westminster Indian Band, the Qay Qayt. This was followed by a beautiful and moving performance by the dancers, which seemed to particularly resonate with the Lieutenant Governor. He gave his opening remarks, and when finished, the audience stood while the Dancers ushered the College President and the Lieutenant Governor out of the theatre with his aide de camp. The aide de camp, as I’ve been told, is a retired military man who is at the right hand of the Lieutenant Governor. At the Wosk Center, he appeared to be a marine in full military dress. At Douglas, it was an army gentleman in full military dress. In a lot of government protocol that I have had the opportunity to see, the dignitary is usually rushed from one place to another without time to forge any type of relationships or even deal with photo opportunities. The Lieutenant Governor, by contrast, took things much slower. He was thrilled with the dancers and commented on a couple of the specific dances and how they were so appropriate for the occasion. As they stood in line, the Lieutenant Governor was introduced to each one and he shook all their hands and asked what Nation they were representing. I don’t know who was more excited, the Lieutenant Governor or the dancers. Although the Honourable Steven L. Point was pressed for time, he took time to meet the dancers and other dignitaries, as well as spending some moments with the group for pictures. What an honour it is to be able to share a few moments with a man who understands his role with the government, but is also willing to make time for people without worrying about any specific political agenda. As you can tell from our photo, you can sure tell he is enjoying himself. His foot was bouncing while he watched the dancers perform and he had a beaming smile of enjoyment. He displayed that same energy as he met the dancers before moving on to another engagement. In the picture of me and the Lieutenant Governor, you can see the Aboriginal print which we gave as a gift toall the speaking dignitaries. I purchased the prints while recruiting students in Prince Rupert. They are beautiful prints of Aboriginal culture by an artist by the name of Ben Houstie of Bella Bella. The framing was done at the last minute but was outstanding. I was unable to get the name of the framer at the deadline so I will let you know next issue because it was very impressive and beautiful. And with that, the Lieutenant Governor was whisked away and the remaining powerful speakers completed the day. As usual, I would like to thank all the departments involved from inception of the project to the completion of the opening of the speaker series. Sometimes it pays to think small By Kai Jansson dives in our fast-paced culture, with its rapid transit, alluring entertainment, and lack of substantial human contact, do you ever long for a simpler way of life? Do you ever just lay down on your bed and daydream about possibly living as part of a tight-knit community, where everyone depends upon everyone else, where you feel needed, and where the bonds you knit with others are very strong because you depend upon them, and they upon you? Many of us long for this kind of lifestyle to a certain extent, and all of us need to be needed. This need is a vital component of all families, societies, and civilizations. Our social lives have changed much over the last century. We, as city-dwellers, no longer live in the small towns of old, where everyone knows everyone else, and where—if you are in need—the whole town will pitch in to help. I imagine most of our grandparents and ancestors lived in these kinds of societies at one time. Some of us have been fortunate enough to have even experienced them firsthand. I have fond memories of growing up in Pinkham, Saskatchewan, a pioneer town with fewer than 75 people, many of whom would gather together for town socials at a local farm. While each of us children would go out into the woods and explore, playing tag and capture the flag, the women- folk would go knit and bake cookies, and the men-folk would sit in their chairs and argue about politics and farm implements. I fully realize how boring and rather sexist it sounds, but it was actually quite reassuring to me as a young child. There was something comforting about seeing all these familiar faces, all my adopted “aunts” and “uncles” and other characters, all together, laughing and making each other happy just by being there. The cities we live in now, however, do not and cannot provide the same situations that you’d find in a small prairie village. For example, we may see a person in scruffy clothes, crying and squirming on a sidewalk and we avert our eyes and quicken our pace; or, if we’re the curious type, we stare out of our car windows as we pass by, doing nothing, often also feeling nothing. We are so numbed by the sheer amount of people in the city that we feel we can’t possibly help everyone. We justify this feeling by saying things like, “What good would it do to help that person when there’s fifty more needing just as much help waiting in line?” It’s as if we’re seeing the entire population of a city through a telescope, and confronted by the numbers we glaze our eyes, not considering that there is merely one person standing before us, and that we ought to help that person. We can’t win by expanding our scope too wide. However, even if we only help one other person in this life, that still means something—especially to that one person. Let’s say that weeping man in scruffy clothes was suddenly transported onto the gravel road of a tiny villa in rural England. The people there, instead of ignoring him (as if anyone in such a condition could really be ignored in a small village), would likely see him moaning and put their hands on his shoulder to help him up, while shouting to others to come. They would put a warm blanket around his disheveled form and take him into Mr. and Mrs. Hobley’s living room, setting him by the fire to warm up. They would offer food and drink and ask what they could do to help, with concern and care in their voices. They would not try to convince themselves that there are simply too many people to help, that they couldn’t put their lives on pause to help even one. They would simply see a person who is crying out for help and help him. I know it sounds strange to say this, but we must as city-dwellers stop looking at the big picture and begin to think in terms of the day-to-day and person-to-person. It’s somewhat akin to biking up a steep hill. In order to make it up, you may use the technique of focusing your vision on a clear target only a few feet in front of you, and once you’ve reached that target, you find another target, a few feet beyond the last one. Reaching several small goals that make up the main goal of reaching the top can make it much easier than trying for that larger main goal. If you make the top of the hill your only goal, you might simply stop and scream, “I give up! It’s impossible! It’s too far!” and just walk the rest of the way or give up altogether. But by taking it step-by-step you can fool your mind into thinking, “Hey, it’s only a couple of feet, I can do that.” If, in your life, there is an obstacle so big that you can’t see past it, try to think of it as one big puzzle, composed of many pieces, each piece smaller than your hand. You probably won’t find it hard to get past an obstacle that small. Once you’ve gotten past that minor obstacle, just go for the next one. Sometimes it’s good to be short-sighted. Just leave the telescope at home. 7