Shis issue: (¥Y What to expect in 2015 (Y The year that was and the year that will be And more! Kinesics: The exciting science of body language » What your gestures say about you Chitwan Khosla Features Editor M features@theotherpress.ca kre is an exciting yet complicated science of behavioural patterns in non-verbal communication. To understand the body movements and signs, experts cultural and environmental differences. Anyone who is unfamiliar with the cultural nuances of the body language has every chance to misinterpret what they see. consciously or subconsciously, through our body than with our words. In fact, we convey more than 60 per cent of our thoughts during any conversation through body movements and very little, sometimes less than 20 per cent, through verbal communication. Dr. Ray Birdwhistell, the founder and father of kinesics, in his manual An Introduction to Kinesics, tried to put together an annotation system for body language. He attempted to break all the body movements into their basics, giving them symbols. The system is based on the assumption that every body movement has a meaning and none are accidental. the insignificant gestures, the meaningful from the totally random ones, or the conscious from the unconscious are important factors to be considered in interpretation of body language. Starting with the eyes, as they are the most powerful and expressive source of communication in body language, Birdwhistell chose simple symbols such as a diamond for an open eye and a line fora closed one. were used to interpret body language. Eyes can transmit subtle hints, and the most important technique of eye management is the look or the stare. Over : a period of time, researchers : revealed some interesting facts : about “stares.” When people : speak a lot they look at their : listener very little, and when : they listen they look at the speaker a lot. When people : start to speak they look away : from their partners at first. There is a subtle pattern in need to take into consideration : Speaking, listening, looking, : and looking away. When someone looks away while : speaking, it generally means : they are still explaining : themselves and don’t want to : be interrupted. A locking of We convey more messages, the gaze in such situation is : a point to interrupt. If they : give a pause but don’t look : directly into the eyes of the : listener, this means they are : not finished yet or looking : for a response. This is mostly : observed during an interview : when 27 to g2 per cent of the time people look away from : their interviewer. Sometimes during a semi- : formal conversation if you : look away and to the sides : without turning your head, it : may mean, “I am not certain : about what am I saying.” If : while listening you suddenly : look straight into the eyes of : the speaker, you are indirectly : saying, “I agree with you and I : am listening to you carefully.” : When you look away with your : head slanting in the direction Separating the significant from : YOU 47 looking, you convey to : your speaker, “IT do not want : you to know my feelings and I : am not very interested in this : conversation.” It is particularly : true when the speaker is : critical or insulting—this is : why kids often look away when : you scold them. Staring is a strong signal if : we wish to treat someone with : acontempt or ignore them. It : can make or break a person by : giving them human or non- : human status. Generally we Combinations of these symbols ; don’t stare at human beings : and stares are reserved for : non-human things only. : We stare at a piece of art, a : painting, a sculpture, scenery, : and at the animals in the zoo, : but we don’t stare at humans : if we want to extend a human ; treatment toward them. : Criminal investigators stare at ; suspects because they look at ; them as subjects for evidence : and information—not humans. : They add human character to the people only after talking to : them. Staring at strangers like : this should be avoided in order : to acknowledge their humanity, : yet we must not ignore them. : Look at the unfamiliar faces : long enough only to make it : clear that we see them and : then immediately look away. : This way we convey with our : body language, “I know you are : there but I would not intrude : on your privacy.” If you pass : someone in the street you : might eye the oncoming person : until you are about eight feet : apart. Then you must look : away, each looking briefly in : the direction you are walking. : Such brief daily encounters : signal that we are not afraid of : the people who walk with us on : the streets. This look-and-look- : away technique is used almost : every second we are alive, often : unknowingly. Some use it : correctly and some don't. Marketing companies : use the subconscious : interpretation of body : language that our minds do : largely for their benefit. Studies : show that the pupils of our eyes : become twice as large when : we see something pleasant : or arousing. This principle is : used to test the effect of the : TV commercials and their : likability. Our gestures of : arms and shoulders show our : willingness or unwillingness : to buy the product. Our finger : Movements can suggest our : interest in knowing more about : the product or dissatisfaction : from the product if used in : past. The study of these minute : human non-verbal movements : isa world of its own where : we actually know that things are not as deceptive as verbal : language. Yes, actions do speak louder than words. Have an idea? Contact: Chitwan Khosla, Features Editor M4 editor@theotherpress.ca www.theotherpress.ca