INSIDE DOUGLAS COLLEGE / March 3, 1992 College employee seeks legal reforms to protect children A Douglas College employee is going through what she calls “every parent’s nightmare”. The employee (whose identity cannot be published so that the identity of the child and the rights of the accused are protected) says the legal system in Canada cannot protect her three-year-old daughter from possible sexual abuse. The woman says that her daughter has disclosed sexual abuse by her father, and she’s fighting to have unsupervised visits between her ex-husband and daughter curtailed. Two weeks ago, she got a break. “The court has now ordered a full evaluation to be done of my daughter, my ex-husband, and me, which is great. That’s what I’ve been wanting. That was a very good step, because it costs $1,700 to $2,400 to have that as- sessment done on your own, which | don’t have.” The employee says children are not protected by the judicial sys- tem, and now she mistrusts the whole system. “If you think the system in place will protect the child, you’re in for a real shock. A year ago, if someone had asked me what | thought of the services available to people like my daughter and me, | would have thought, ‘there’s lots of support’. No way. Even the police tell you you’re wasting their time. There is more funding to help the accused than the victim. We're talking about children here, with no one to protect them ex- cept their parents, and if it’s a parent that has done these terrible things to them, then what do they have?” What she wants is the end of what she calls “court-mandated child abuse.” “I'm fighting so that children can be safe. The child’s best inter- ests should be immediate, and until a full assessment is done, ac- cess should be totally denied or the court should order supervised access. As soon as it is established that abuse has occurred, the ac- cused should be instantly denied access to the child. The courts have to realize that the child is the important issue.” A Adrian Mole continued from page 1 north country, The Secret Diary of Adrian Mole (Aged 13 3/4) is a delicate comedy that still manages to deal with some important issues. Adrian is full of adolescent angst because he’s at the age when one is more prone to feel the need to be accepted. His parents don’t have much time for him, so he escapes through aspiring to be an intellectual, and by writing in his diary: “Perhaps when my diary’s discovered people will realize how miserable it is to be a thirteen-year-old intellectual,” he laments in an opening monologue. Through that melancholy process we come to know Adrian Mole. “There is some pathos, but the humour dominates,” says Director Dorothy Jones. “People can remember how awtul it was to be thirteen years old. It’s a complex tangle of family and community relationships, all seen through Adrian’s eyes.” Because it’s Adrian’s perspec- tive, says Jones, the play must have a larger-than-life quality in terms of the set, the other charac- ters and their costumes. For example, the school principal is literally having a suit built up around him so that he will seem a frightening seven feet tall. That’s how Adrian sees him, and other characters are distorted too. But in a comedy, those tricks can only be taken so far, says Jones. “Although the characters are purposely al- most cartooned, for the comedy to work they have to be real.” The production requires not only the delicate timing for humour, but musical accompani- ment for the dozen songs. “It’s not a musical; it’s a play with music. When | selected the play, | was amazed to find how many people have read the books and seen the (PBS) television series.” Sports Institute Programmer Chris Johnson, a native of Yorkshire, is helping out with the production as dialogue coach. He’s also helping to choreograp> a fight scene. The Secret Diary of Adrian Mole Aged 13 3/4 (the Play) runs from March 13-14 and 17-21 at 8 pm, with Sunday matinees on March 15 and 22 at 2 pm. Tickets are $10, and $7 for students and seniors. For informa- tion and reservations, call 527-5488. ° E we - oe . J Gs Ye LES j ee . ae "