Opinions. Need to vent? Contact the editor at opinions@theotherpress.ca Realistic resolutions Achievable goals for the New Year By Elliot Chan, Contributor Hx we are again— another year—and yes, I know what your plans are. I know you want to get back in shape, get out of debt, become involved in a steady relationship, and move forward in the world. Hey, maybe 2013 is your lucky year, but let’s be hon- est: 365 days might not be enough time to accomplish all of that. So let’s take a moment and have a look at some fulfilling and achiev- able goals. It might not be the overall objective, but it will be better than nothing. Use technology as a bridge for human connection, not as the means. You're a busy person and it’s obvious you love the new phone you got on Boxing Day. But don’t waste your life staring at the screen. Set a limit to how much you text someone throughout the course of the day. If you exceed the limit, force yourself to call the person or hell, pay them a visit. Quit complaining, or at least complain less. Develop a positive attitude for less than positive situations. Don’t huff and puff because there is a long line for coffee, or whine about the late bus or the idiots taking their sweet time making a left turn in traffic. The world is not out to get you, though sometimes it might feel that way. Complaining does not help. In fact, it makes every bad situation worse The sounds of silence Harpers lack of response in the Idle No More movement By Natalie Serafini, Opinions Editor ‘ve had my issues with Stephen Harper. Quite apart from the fact that his face appears to be permanently smug, I don’t think he’s passed muster as prime minister. I disagree with his funding decisions; I’m disdainful of his passing agreements and downplaying them in the media, presumably to avoid criticism (the quiet development of an agree- ment with CNOOC being a recent example); and I doubt that anyone—least of all the Conservatives— was happy about the allegations of manipulative and downright dirty strategies employed by 18 the Conservative party in the last federal election. I’m not just holding grudges, either. Harper is now effectively demonstrat- ing his failure to negotiate with or acknowledge those who challenge him. Those who challenge him being members of the Idle No More movement. The movement was started by four Saskatchewan women, frustrated by the Conservative’s latest and not-so-great omnibus, Bill C-45. They assert that the bill makes it easier to sell off Indian reserves, while Tom Flanagan, political scientist and supporter of the Conservative party, argues that the bill makes it easier for First Nations to lease their land. Theresa Spence, chief of the Attawapiskat First Nation, has been on a hun- ger strike since December 11, vowing not to eat until she has secured a meeting because you only focus on the negative. It’s time to change your perspective. Try new food and music. Forget eating health- ier, I have no intention of preaching about diets. I only want you to be aware that Vancouver has one of the biggest culinary communities in the world. You can walk down the promenade and order dishes from anywhere. It’s a shame to waste an appetite on McDonald’s or a granola bar. And don’t just listen to the radio where they force-feed you the mainstream rubbish. With websites like groove- shark.com and songza. com, there is no reason not to venture out of your genre and experiment. The discovery of good music is overwhelmingly satisfying. Keep a sketchbook ora with Prime Minister Harper. For his part, the right and honourable PM has yet to agree toa meeting, while Spence has received endorse- ments from members of other political parties. Although protests in the name of Idle No More have been spreading, the support being sought from Harper is notably absent. Harper’s response has been nonexistent apart from mentioning a gathering between the Crown and the First Nations last January. As Jenny Uechi of the Vancouver Observer notes, there’s been plenty of time for his team to tweet about “Charlie the Chinchilla [getting] into the Christmas spirit at 24 Sussex.” I’m aware that it’s most likely some poor forlorn intern who’s having to tweet about a Christmas chinchilla, and I know that Harper’s not about to address Idle No More in a tweet. But utter journal and stay creatively active. We worry so much about our physical health that we forget about our mental health. Keep your thoughts in shape by allowing them to be active during periods where your body is waiting to transport your brain somewhere else. Relax and occasionally spoil yourself. The world wont fall apart without silence rather than address- ing what are some legiti- mate concerns from a long marginalized community? For a moment, let’s forget about the question of whether or not he cares about the Ghandi-esque protests of a First Nation chief, or her health, or her reasons for protesting. His responsibility as prime minister is to listen and respond to the beliefs, concerns, and votes of the Canadian people. So far, I’d say he’s done a less than mediocre job of doing so. The Conservative’s alleged robo-calls manip- ulated the vote, and—if the allegations are true— directly went against what a politician is meant to be. True, some politicians aim to remain in power irrespective of fact and fiction, yet the ideal poli- ticians are still those who endeavor to represent the people. A party that would intentionally dissuade you, despite what people make you believe. Take a siesta and wake up to work even harder. Instead of pro- crastinating, actually relax. No matter what you end up doing, a good outlook and an open mind will help you achieve those high expectations. I wish you the best of luck, and I’ll check up on you again this time next year. groups from voting because those people aren’t voting the “right” way is intent on not listening to the people. Harper burying potentially unpopular decisions shows a lack of commitment to serving the people and to honesty. He has been accused of burying the CNOOC agreement by announcing it on a Friday evening—a time notorious for harbouring the fugitives of agreements; those sickly bills and decisions that would die off if exposed to the harsh light of day and the public’s ire. Harper’s handling of Idle No More seems very much in line with his ever-sullying track record. No person is perfect, and politicians are not exempt from that generalization. Is it too much to ask, though, that our prime minister strive to be good?