INSIDE DOUGLAS COLLEGE / APRIL 25, 1989 Infant Development Continued philosophy where the child moves to the next learning step when he is ready, and when he feels comfortable. How infants learn and how caregivers can provide the space, objects and respectful care to help them develop on their own, is the subject of an upcoming lecture and workshop in May at Douglas College. “In one word, this philosophy boils down to respect.” To be conducted by world- yenowned infancy program expert Magda Gerber, the ses- sions will explore RIE — Resources of Infant Educators. ‘Participants will discover how we can observe an infant’s learning process and how we can make items available to the child and learn from the child what they are ready for,” said Hungarian-trained Gerber who is now based in Los Angeles. “In one word, this philosophy boils down to respect. Infants are often not respected. They are loved, adored, looked upon as cute little creatures, but are not considered human beings. This philosophy teaches one to respect the infant as a human being and to respect his ability to know when he is ready to learn something new.” “A child will learn in his own time and in his own way. That EET eSATA NW A 2 will be his perfect time and his perfect way to learn,” said Ger- ber. “No one knows better what the child needs at a certain time than himself.” “It boils down to who is in control The adult believes they should be in control. They are the teacher, the mother. They are the grownup, so they think they should know the best, and teach the child. But no, you don’t know. You observe and learn from the child. Then the child is appreciated for what they do, not for what they are supposed to do.” “A person with three PhD’s says a child should be doing such and such an activity at such and such an age. But the re- searcher cannot know that for sure for every child,” says Ger- ber who opposes the philosophy of pushing a child into learning and development. “When you push a child, they can’t experience what they can do because they are always being pushed to do what they cannot do. Therefore, what you enjoy doing is never good enough. What you cannot do is “The child is appreciated for what they do, not for what they are supposed to do.” what is expected — that is the message children are given, and it carries into their adult life." “Yes, we live in a competitive @ world, but the best way to prepare for it is to allow for self- confidence. What the child can do, let him do well and enjoy The RIE approach has grown out of close to half a century of research and clinical work, doing. That will build his own self-confidence, in himself and his trust in the caregiver." Gerber admits that the RIE philosophy is a vastly different approach to child development. “In the United States over the past 20 years there has been a great push for infants to perform more, do better, and often they are asked to do ridiculous things. But now that is chang- ing.” “In the past I was alone in this philosophy. But now, more and more people are saying that child’s readiness is more impor- tant — pushing doesn’t work.” The RIE approach has grown out of close to half a century of research and clinical work with infants reared at the National Methodological Institute of Residential Nurseries in Budapest, Hungary. Founded in 1946 by Emmi Pikler, a pediatrician and psychologist, the nursery houses continued on page 3 9 e | | | J