INSIDE DOUGLAS COLLEGE / OCTOBER 31, 1989 Alcohol and Drug Abuse Intervention Seminar How to Help Those Who Don't Want Help Intervention. Is it possible to help a family member or close friend who hasa serious problem with alcohol or drug abuse? Sooner or later, alcoholics and drug addicts end up out of control, and become increasingly destruc- tive to everyone around them. The myth is that unless these people have finally “bottomed out” and are genuinely willing to change, it is impossible to help them. This may be partly true, but ac- cording to Roy Adams, a counsellor with New Westminster’s Pacifica Treatment Centre Society, there are effective techniques for interven- about how the behaviour of the al- coholic or addict has affected them. “This sort of groundwork is ab- solutely essential,” says Adams. “The family needs to sort out their own issues among themselves.” “The alcoholic or addict seems to have a way of separating mem- bers of the family from one another. Family members often feel isolated. But pre-intervention counselling can have a beneficial ripple effect. As the rest of the family becomes more integrated and secure in them- selves, this can have a very good ef- fect on the substance abuser, particularly with seniors.” If family members are prepared carefully beforehand, as many as half of interventions attempted can be successful. tion that are designed to encourage alcoholics or drug addicts to want help. “If family members are prepared carefully beforehand, as many as half of interventions at- tempted can be successful,” he says. Douglas College is hosting a seminar called Intervention: How to Help Those Who Don’t Want Help on November 16 and 17. The workshop will be led by specialists from the Johnson Institute of Min- neapolis, one of North America’s most experienced treatment centres. “Many interventions are car- ried out by the employer and these can be successful,” Adams says. “I prefer to work with the family. | place a lot of importance on their in- volvement.” Before confronting the sub- stance abuser, Adams says it is necessary to meet several times with family members so that everyone involved feels comfort- able expressing their own feelings When it comes to the interven- tion itself, the process should be one in which each family member tells how he has been affected by the abuser. This is not judging, preaching or demanding, warns Adams. If done properly it can help to motivate the alcoholic or addict to recognize the problem and decide to change. Ronald Conboy, of Maple Ridge Alcohol and Drug clinic, agrees that intervention should not be an accusatory confrontation. It should be a process where the fami- ly mirrors back to the victim what they have observed and how they have been affected by the alcoholic’s behaviour. It should be aimed at getting the victim of sub- stance abuse into treatment. “To have it work there should be some sort of hammer or ul- timatum to help to coerce people into seeking treatment,” Conboy says. Adam’s adds that the method of intervention varies depending on the abuser. “With middle-aged people, you can usually approach them with the danger of losing their marriage or their job. But with the elderly, you need a totally dif- ferent approach. Their physical health is important to them and their bodies can deteriorate very rapidly, particularly if they are mixing prescription drugs with al- cohol.” “Even for people in mid-life, mixing booze with prescription drugs such as pain-killers, anal- gesics, sleeping pills, anything with codeine in it, will triple the debilitating effects of the alcohol,” Conboy says. “For people over 65 years the effect is even more dangerous. Mixing pills and booze quadruples the damage.” Adams adds that there are now many more elderly victims of substance abuse because people are living longer and they appear to have more disposable in- come. The two-day seminar on November 16 and 17 will be held at Douglas College’s New Westminster campus. Particpants will learn the Johnson Institute family model of intervention, the roles education and counselling play in the process, the importance of assessment, and how to use inter- vention in the workplace, social work settings, schools and the criminal justice system. It is designed to assist all help- ing professionals who work with chemical dependants and their co- dependants and families. The semi- nar costs $160. Early registration is recommended. Contact Douglas College at 527-5479 for more information. @