© theotherpress A Chat with Joni Kate Abel OP Contributor S ince I was in my early twenties, I have loved everything Joni Mitchell. Many of us know “Clouds,” one of several songs she made famous. For me, the song holds special mean- ing. At home in England one miserable Saturday afternoon, I borrowed one of my brother’s record albums, and there in my par- ents’ front room, fell in love with Mitchell’s words. All of her songs are stories, and if you listen well, they'll stay with you forever. I bought all her albums, listened to every song, but still I didn't know Joni at all. I knew she was Canadian, that she loved Canada, and that a lot of her songs made reference to bumping logs and rivers to skate away on. I was intrigued. I started looking at Canada more closely, and 19 months after first borrowing that album from my brother, I was on a Canadian Pacific plane, Vancouver. I first met Mitchell in about 1991. She was headed for Los Angeles through Vancouver Airport, where I worked as a ticket agent. I didn’t see her at first and a colleague pointed her out to me as she walked by. My heart in my mouth, I approached her and very politely asked her for an autograph. I couldn't resist telling her I had every album she'd ever made, and she was genuinely delighted. It was just perfect. Yes, I gushed, she’s my hero! Over the next couple of years I met her again briefly as she passed through the airport on her way to Los Angeles. She looked quite pale and walked very slowly. She had a recurring problem with polio she had suffered as a child, but never asked for help and always had a smile for any- one who recognized her. At last, in 1997, I got to speak with her again. I mean really speak with her. I was working over on the USA side of the airport, when someone mentioned that Joni Mitchell was booked on the same flight I was working on as a boarder. I walked down toward the gate in time to see Mitchell study- ing her boarding pass. She was wearing a long skirt, a fringed suede jacket, and suede boots. Over the jacket was draped a southwestern- patterned shawl. She looked every bit the Mitchell we see on her album covers. Seizing my chance, I quietly walked up to her and asked if I could be of assistance. To my relief, she laughed and said, “Yeah, you can tell me where I can go have a cigarette!” I showed her to the blue-hazed smoking lounge, empty except for one lonely smoker in the far corner. As she thanked me and sat down, I asked her if I might sit and chat with her for a while. “Of course,” she said. “Sit down and have a emigrating to Features I started looking at Canada more closely, and 19 months after first borrowing that album from my brother, I was ona Canadian ** Pacific plane, emigrat- ing to Vancouver. smoke with me.” We talked. I mean we talked. 1 didn’t just prattle on while she feigned interest. We actu- ally had a conversation. I felt like we had known each other for years. Of course from my point of view, I knew her well, but she seemed genuinely interested in what I had to say. I told her about my coming to Canada, and how she had played an important part in my getting here. I asked her about some of the songs she'd written, especially “Green,” “The Magdalene Laundry,” and “A Case Of You.” I wanted to know if they were based on her experiences, on people that she had met. She told me that Ireland’s Magdalene Laundry was a place she'd heard terrible stories about. Young girls were sent there simply because they were too pretty and men looked at them a certain way, or they had been raped by parish priests and made pregnant. She had to write about it, she said, so that the girls who had suffered through it wouldn't be forgotten. The story has since been made into a movie—“The Magdalene Sisters” —released in 2002. Surprisingly, Mitchell started to talk about the daughter she had given up for adoption in 1965 and had just been reunited with. She was so happy about it. She was planning to see a lot more of her daughter now that they'd been reintroduced. I had never thought to ask her about it—it seemed too personal—but she had no hesitation in telling me. She asked who my favourite singers were. Apart from her, of course, I told her I liked Michael McDonald. She laughed and said she had done a couple of songs with him. He has the quietest demeanour, the softest voice, and then suddenly he starts to sing and huge voice seemingly out of nowhere, she said. In her carry-on luggage she had some art- work that she was doing for the cover of her new CD. We talked about vinyl records vs. CDs and just about anything else that came into our heads. Just then, the door opened and my colleague called over to me, “Are you coming to help with this flight, or should we start without you?” I laughed and said, “Oh, I’m way too busy to do any work, just get on with it!” I knew that my talk with Joni was over. As I left, I thanked her for letting me chat with her. “You made my day!” she said to me as I left. “It was great talking to you. I sure hope you don’t get into trouble.” I love her even more now. I’ve met her and shared a conversation with her. Even though she may not know me from Adam, for that one afternoon she made me feel that I was a friend, as well as her biggest fan. comes Page 20 e hittp://www.otherpress.ca October 15, 2003 Contact the Student Services Centres at Douglas College. 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