Women, you and the office: facing the truth. And what to do about it. By Judylaine Fine ngrateful bitch! You’d gone out of your way to be decent to her—turned a blind eye to all those one-and-a-half-hour lunches, the endless telephone calls from the boyfriend, the long absences while she chatted with the girls down the corridor. And now! This is the thanks you get—a letter of resigna- tion slammed on your desk. Even then, you’d done the honorable thing—offered her more money. She’d grinned—or was it a triumphant sneer?—and said no thanks, she was going anyway. Five months. The one before had stayed seven. And the one before that only two. You can’t win. They come, they go. And you have to start again. Well, maybe it’s time you faced the truth. You are the reason the women who work for you quit on you. They walk out because. they don’t respect you and they’re not satisfied with their jobs. And they'll continue to walk out on you again and again and again—unless you wake up to what’s really going on. It’s a whole new ball game, and if you want to get on with the women who work for—and with—you, you’d better learn the rules. Most men in business today haven’t a clue what the women who work for them want. “There’s a whole new wave of women in business today,” says Herman Smith, a Toronto management recruiting consultant. “They no longer pride themselves exclusively on working for an individual boss. Women today are interested in the goals of the corporation. It’s not just money that they are demanding; they want to stand up and be counted. Most employers don’t realize this.” But they do realize one thing. High annual turnover costs a lot of time and money. Paying for ads, interviewing applicants and teaching new girls the old ropes isn’t the best way to fill your day. Unless you happen to be running a job placement service. Honey Davis owns a female Saga agency in downtown Toronto. Like many women, she has returned to (continued 9)