www.theotherpress.ca OPINIONS. Return to sender An open letter to the writers of open letters Sharon Miki, Columnist hen I was nine years old, I used my allowance to buy six cupcakes from my school’s bake sale. It wasn’t really something that I was proud of, but it was my decision. It was my business, until my frenemy Brittany stood up in front of the class and loudly proclaimed that she was worried about me getting fat, because she had seen me purchase said cupcakes. She wouldn’t want me to be too chubby to play with her on the playground. At the time, I recall being embarrassed and seeing through Brittany’s feigned concern for me as a ploy to bring attention to her own superior eating habits and lean figure; she was using me as a vehicle for her own humble- bragging, and I didn’t like it. I feel these same feelings when I see the swarm of open letters penned by low-level celebrities to more famous pop icons, as in the recent series of open letters from Sinead O’Connor to Miley Cyrus. Is using the specific medium of an open letter really about genuine concern, or is it more about a ploy to garner viral attention for yourself? An open letter is a letter targeted towards a specific individual, but is released to a wide audience. Historically, open letters were used as a way for a person to present a position on a topic or to disseminate a political message that might not otherwise be heard by the public. Martin Luther King, Jr., for example, wrote his “Letter from Birmingham Jail” as an open letter to spread his message of non-violent resistance to racism while he was imprisoned. However, in our current Proto courtresy of www.02varvera.wordpress.com social media-saturated culture, open letters have largely become a way for people to spread their opinions about someone through the veil of niceness and faux concern. While I fully support one’s right to express their opinions, I take issue with using the open letter medium to do so if it’s simply a way to capitalize on someone else’s fame while trying to make the writer seem nice. For example, in the case of O’Connor’s open letters to Cyrus, I can’t fault O’Connor for having a view on the sexualization of Cyrus’s public image; however, I do feel that using an open letter in which she’s highly critical “in the spirit of motherliness and with love” taints her message with a condescending tone that makes her sincerity unreliable. Moreover, her open letter is filled with self-congratulatory anecdotes that come across more as self-affirmation than as a message to Cyrus: “The look I chose, I chose on purpose at a time when my record company were encouraging me to do what you have done. I felt ] would rather be judged on my talent and not my looks. I am happy that I made that choice, not least because I do not find myself on the proverbial rag heap now that I am almost 47 yrs of age... which unfortunately many female artists who have based their image around their sexuality, end up on when they reach middle age.” Sure, O’Connor can feel good about her choices as much as she wants, but using contrived concern over Cyrus to capitalize on Cyrus’ current fame is in poor taste. If the ostensible point of an open letter is to spread a message of significance when other means are not available then O’Connor’s missive misses the mark as it becomes more a pathetic attempt to grasp at the coattails of someone else’s relevance than a sincere letter of concern. So, what's the solution? If you find yourself desperately needing to tell someone how you feel, go ahead and write that letter. Just put an address on it instead of sending it out for the whole world to read. We dont need no education Homework and exams can only do so much Elliot Chan Opinions Editor ‘ts opinions@theotherpress.ca M33 Twain once said, “Don’t let schooling interfere with your education.” As I round into the latter- half of my two-year program, this quote resonates more than ever. Sometimes I get so focussed on grades and assignments that I forget the whole reason I signed up for college in the first place. After all, I’m attending post- secondary for the same reason everybody else is: to achieve my full potential in a career of my choice. But when an opportunity knocks, what choice do I really have? The education system can only teach me so much before I become disinterested and start to reject the content. Nay, it’s just my inability to retain it. I sit through lectures, I jot down notes, and go through the classroom motions until I’m released once again with a list of readings, several assignments, a scheduled exam, and project deadlines. Unsure of what I’m getting out of it, I feel overwhelmed and anxious. People tell me to pay my dues, but trudging along learning something that will be forgotten or never applied feels like a complete waste. Public schools and general studies are just that—general. Catering to the masses and focussing on a few, schooling may often feel like the instructor is teaching to another student while you sit idly by waiting for some relevant content to spark your interest. Sure, with a little luck, we'll end up with that piece of paper honouring our completion—but is it worth the price? I say build your own curriculum and don’t just follow schooling. Classrooms and lecture halls can only do so much. In preparing for the real world, it’s important, nay, critical to experience the real world. Don’t just get a part- time job at a local restaurant if you're studying law. Strive for something in your field and don’t fall for the trap of convenient work. I understand that those opportunities are hard to come by and jobs are incredibly competitive, but take the chance. You'll learn more interning at a firm than you would serving drinks, or even cramming for an exam. Volunteering may seem like offering free labour, but if you think that then what do you think homework is? Being an unpaid helper shows the public that you care about your craft, that you’re willing to take time out of your busy schedule to learn, and that money isn’t the priority. Volunteering is a terrific way to network and meet future employers, regardless of the volunteering circumstances. By surrounding yourself with people of the same professional interests, you can gain knowledge and inspirational fuel. Travelling is the best and only way to see the world. You'll learn more about yourself sitting at a bus terminal halfway around the world than you would sitting in a two-hour lecture about global economics. Didn’t get the course you wanted? Instead of spending your money on meeting your post-secondary credit quota, book a trip. Tuition comes in many forms and that means education does as well. Just because you are in school, that doesn’t mean you can’t learn outside of it. Workplace preparation is more than exams and homework. It never hurts to be an all-around interesting person. 15