Other Press FEATURE December 13, 1993 Remembering Montreal students and staff gather to honour the murdered women of Ecole Polytechnique It was-a solemn day at Douglas College Decem- ber 6 as faculty, staff and students gathered to pay their respects to the women murdered at the Ecole Polytechnique, an engineering school in Montréal. Events were scheduled both to pay tribute to the women who were killed, and to raise awareness of violence against women, as the killer took action against the women because they were women. clockwise from bottom left: A speakers addresses the gathered crowd at the ceremony; a circle was formed to listen to the speakers; a woman lays flowers in honour of the women (inset); a forum afterwards disscussed ways to stop violence against women; the concourse back to normal shortly after the ceremony, except for a table set up to talk about the issues. Photos: Jim Irving ea by Marina Jurlina On Thursday, December 2, Douglas College held the first open community forum on the violence perpetrated by the Men’s Group (all three members) as a way of commerating the tragic event White Ribbon Campaign (MenAgainst MaleViolence), the group hoped to in- munity so that it could collectively ad- dress the issue and generate construc- tive responses and solutions in se discussion. The panel included Claudia Beaven, who teaches gender issues, Bruce Landon from the psychology depart- ment, and Rob Buris, counsellor in the SHARE community service in Coquitlam. Stephen Mainprize from so- men in our society, It was concieved by _ of December 6. In conjunction with the - troduce the topic to the college com- _ cial sciences facilitated the forum, guided by the recent StatsCan report entitled “The Violence Against Women Survey” released November 18. _ Social, economic and physical expla- nations on why men are violent were provided by the panelists. A strong em- phasis was placed on the general accept- ance of violence in our society, and the need to change these behaviours. - “Offensive things culturalize chil- dren and anyone who is susceptible. If you see something, act on it. It has im- pact - do something - respond,” saidTom Childs, organizer, activist, and learning resource person. Unfortunately, not many practical solutions were provided: the forum stayed on a very intellectual level. Many of those in attendance.were disappointed with this theoretical approach, since eve- ryone there was already aware of the problems and was looking for practical solutions. Men are beating on women. Not just here, but all over the world the con- tinuum of violence done is escalating. Fully 19 per cent of all Canadian women have experienced it. Only the instiga- tors can stop it. The rest of us can help only by providing alternate behaviours to the violent response that is chosen to vent our emotions. So I have provided a few of the projects currently happening that you can get involved with. The Douglas College Womens’ Cen- tre is currently working on a safety sur- vey based on a successful system based in Ontario called METRAC. It attempts to pinpoint the causes of feelings of unease and danger created by some en- vironments. This provides specific and practical problems: that can be resolved through either physical planning or community awareness. The surveys cir- culated in October brought to attention the areas of greatest concern, such as the parking lots, parkades, stairwells and Skytrain stations. Adminstration has — agreed to make any physical changes necessary, They hope to have a physical’ walka- bout’ around the campus and surround- ing three block radius. If you're looking for practical - you can’t beat making your environment safer. Let the Womens’ Cen- tre know if you're interested. The Student Society is also organiz- ing a Safe Walk program. This program is for the use of students who feel un- safe walking around campus, to their cars, to Skytrain, etc. The people in the program are student volunteers who Mens' forum too intellectualized, says student have been scleaed after their interview and records check. In addition, the College now has a written Standards of Conduct policy, in _ addition to the Sexual and Personal Harrassment policy in which they have comitted to “providing a learning and _working environment which is free from sexual and personal harrassment... in which students are entitled to en- __ gage in the [educational or work] proc- ess, free from disruptions, harrassment, or threat to personal safety.” Marina Jurlina is a student at Douglas Col- lege, and a work-study student at the Womens’ Centre.